Judge Linda Marquis
After the legislative changes that The Vegas Voice were able to accomplish over several sessions regarding guardianship, I was sure that treatment of “our generation” would fare better. However, based on the amount of phone calls and emails I have received lately asking for help, it seems I was wrong.
“Elder abuse” is still out there in many stages. I thought a discussion about what could be done to help friends, family members, neighbors, or other seniors might help.
First, let’s think about local elections. What do you know about the local judges and/or those running for election?
I was both amazed and appalled several years ago when a resident of our Sun City community was fighting her children (who were her guardians) in their desire to move her to an assisted living facility in Los Angeles. She was trying to have their guardianship removed since she led a very active life while her children claimed she was suffering from Alzheimer’s.
Outside of the courtroom where her case was being heard, stood a large sign on an easel which displayed The Bill of Rights for people under guardianship.
To make a long story short, Judge Linda Marquis must never have even glanced at the sign since she violated every right outlined in it and agreed to allow the adult children to move her.
My point? Judges are elected by “we the people.” Please do your research before casting your vote.
Now let’s talk about hired caregivers, live-in or not.
Many caregivers are kind and work in a very difficult environment to ensure their employers are taken care of in a dignified fashion. Unfortunately, I’m hearing some of these caregivers behave more like jailers rather than caregivers.
My advice? Be sure that references are checked out before hiring one.
There are also a few things friends, family and neighbors can do in this instance. Hidden cameras, (nanny cams), so easily available, is one way to prove mistreatment. There are many tiny ones you can buy.
I know, I know, about the “privacy” issue, but which would be best when trying to convince the police or family that the abuse is going on?
Another option would be asking the police for a “welfare check” of a senior you suspect is being abused. Lastly, always be sure to document and photograph possible signs of physical abuse and/or record verbal abuse.
Other calls I have received pertain to mistreatment by family members. This is why I have often stressed, making sure that your trust, will, and other documents are safe with copies to your attorney and/or a trusted friend or family member.
A final word to the wise: Protect yourself at all times.
